According to mainstream culture we’re in the age of shaving; at least for women. The more hair you have on your body, the more people see you as some sort of jungle creature who failed to understand the basic rules of civilization. Porn magazines are full of shaved women, while “going natural” has been turned into a fetish. And slowly but surely this fashion is spreading to the men. Shaved pubes can give a man a ‘porn-look’ which most women, if not all, loves.

To be sure, men are still the hairy part of the human race and hairy chests and full beards are still seen as the mark of a virile man that can fulfill a woman’s most intimate dreams, but the trend is changing. Shaving the pubic hair is more and more common among men today as a sort of step up on the personal hygiene ladder. It’s true that a full bush is more imposing, but women nowadays seem to be more interested in having a clean man, who has a nice smell about him than a guy with questionable hygiene habits who uses a lot of deodorant.

Moreover, shaving is quite a good option for any man who is involved in penis enlargement. First of all, shaving the bush puts the penis on display better than before and, second, there’s no more annoying hair to get in the way of performing enlargement exercises. Think about it: just get rid of some hair and suddenly getting a firm grip on the penis shaft is much easier. And there’s no more risk of pulling hairs, which hurts quite a bit.

The debate around which method for shaving is the best is still far from over. Razors are still the best way to go and they are right to a certain extent. The razor lets the user have full control over how much hair goes and which parts are left untouched. On the other hand, using a razor requires quite a lot of dexterity or the help of a third party, which is not always easy to come by.

An old-fashioned razor blade, a modern safety razor, an electric razor or rotary epilators can do the works for you. There are actually lots of products to choose from so go with the one that you’re comfortable with. Wax is also a good option, but some men are not that keen to pour hot wax over their most sensitive parts.

If you’re interested in getting rid of some hair, but the whole idea leaves you a bit queasy, then you might wish to try a trim first. It will look better and at the same time it will let you avoid getting the blade close to the sensitive skin. Be sure to use some aftershave or soothing cream afterwards in order to prevent the post-shave itchiness and the pimples that might form.

Having short or no pubic hair can have its advantages during partner sex. First your partner may prefer it and find it sexually stimulating. As a result they find you more desirable. The trimming and shaving of the pubic hair is just one way of enhancing sex, solo and with a partner. And speaking of being desirable in the eyes of women, nothing can still beat a healthy and biggie package.

You feel trapped by your insecurity and direct your energy to over protectiveness and jealousy instead. So, you try to buy her time and attention by overwhelming her with the prettiest flowers, wonderful gifts, expensive dinners, and luxurious holidays. You want to control and have the upper hand in the relationship. You utilize the possess-and-isolate tactic on her. You always make excuses for her to be always with you, or to be available at your beck and call. Her girl friends are exasperated with you and upset at how possessive you are.

So where does all this insecurity and jealousy spring from? You may have bad experiences before regarding relationships and loyalty, and you ensure that it doesn’t ever happen again. In turn, you intensely guarantee that you are the sole object of her desire.

Male insecurity has also been known to directly correlate with a deficiency in the size of the male member. Many men are bothered that they are not big enough or they’re not gonna please their ladies with their current size. This probably explains the thriving and often lucrative business that is penis enlargement.

Another reason may be about money or resources. Many guys feel disdain, oftentimes envy, towards other men who are better off than themselves. With more money, you could probably spend lavish gifts for your girl; and with more presents, you think you make yourself highly desirable and attractive.

Men, just like women, also need to be liked. They want to be respected, adored, and esteemed. They want to be feel important and special to someone. They want to be loved and needed.

So, how would you rein in your insecurity and keep your jealousy in check? Take time to do a self-assessment. Improve your looks and learn new things. Go to the gym, join sports club, or enroll in short courses like foreign languages, arts, or even acting. More importantly, is the measure of trust and loyalty that you and your girl have for each other. Don’t let your insecurities cloud your judgment and ruin your relationships. Treat her with respect as much as you would want her to do the same for you.